Uncover Your Beliefs About Money
by: Elli Sanders
Wow, so I’m sitting here in my apartment here in Kumamoto, Japan looking out the porch glass doors onto my amazing balcony that looks over the Shirakawa River and I’m here thinking about how damn grateful I am to be able to live here, to experience the things I’ve experienced, the people I’ve made friends with, done business with and more then that I’m thinking about the adventures that are coming.
You see, I currently make around $35,000 a day right now, yes a lot goes to products, goes to labor goes to taxes and goes to charity. So at the end of the day do I really pull in a million plus a month (USD)? Nah, not even close, but you know what, you can live pretty damn well on $300-$400k a month. But you know, money really is only a unit of freedom and that freedom really depends on your worthiness of having those freedom units. Beyond all the little law of attraction tactics you can do, worthiness is the prime reason one (perhaps you?) doesn’t achieve a life of ease when it comes to financial gains and grace. Thing is I can live off of less then $10,000 a month (personal expenses), I do it kind of frequently (besides rent I can comfortably live on $2,000/m).
But don’t get me wrong I KNOW that $10,000 is a lot of money to a lot of people and yeah it’s a good money, but it doesn’t buy much believe it or not. I live very well usually spending that or less a month on rent, food/eating out, education, transportation and some for friends and family who come and see me. But how exactly can you get to the point where you are living a life of fanciful luxury that can last and be able to have the free time to do what your heart longs for?
Your worthiness causes you to act in certain ways and controls your anticipation towards your goals. The more you feel good about your goals the faster they will come to you in your life, be it through challenges or ease, these attractions that you pull into your life will be coming from worthiness of oneself and ones goals. So how do you increase worthiness?
- When you catch yourself feeling unworthy, stop your thoughts and say to yourself out loud or in your head if your in public “CANCEL, CANCEL!” Then physically or mentally look down to the ground and see a little bug saying all those things that were going on in your head, see the little bastard telling you can’t and your not worthy. Then SQUASH HIM and say “I AM WORTHY!“
- After squashing your bug, then think about the best parts of your goals. Make yourself feel as good as you possibly can. If you are depressed try to get to anger, if you are angry try to get to frustration instead, if you are neutral or bored try to feel relaxed. The goal here is just feel a little bit better, you don’t have to be insanely stupidly happy all the time to have attraction happen, just get a little higher on the emotional scale chart (see below)
- Create goals that feel great and listen to music while you feel good about your goals.
- Go out into the world and try to smile as much as you can feeling good about your goals and the anticipation of their arrival.
So these are just some tips. This is basic NLP (Neuro-Lingustic Programming), you are basically hypnotizing yourself to stop feeling unworthy. Every time you catch yourself feeling like shit and using the cancel cancel technique you are in essence breaking a habit.
All thoughts, actions and beliefs you have today are practically the same that you had yesterday, and that will continue until you catch yourself thinking beliefs and doing certain habits that make you feel crappy and change them. Everything is habit that you ultimately do to some degree, it’s all based on your bodies basic chemical addictions that need to be fed. Once you break the habit you wish to not have, you are then free to fill it in with something else.
That’s where your goals and dreams come in to formulate your habits that then build on to themselves and bring you a life truly worth living in excitement and appreciation.
So this is how this works:
You’re born with preprogrammed ideas, beliefs and physical disposition based from your mother while you were in the womb, you are not a blank slate starting out, farthest thing from the true fact of things. Between the energetic and genetic codes from your parents you’ll have to accept that no one is born equal at ALL.
It is true that those that come from wealthy family lineages have a better natural attraction towards money and worthiness in that direction, but don’t let anyone tell you that you can’t have what you want. You can physically and spiritually change these energies inside yourself by changing your habits on how you feel about your worth and money by working with the NLP tip I gave you.
So, you’re born, you get programmed physically by your parents beliefs (their worthiness and unworthiness beliefs), you go to school pick up a really fucked up version of how life is and how money works, you go to college get another dose of WTH about money, you go into the work force to pay off a ridiculous amount of student debt, you get stuck in a rut, you find someone romantically, get married pop off kids, stress about money and then pass along this line of unworthiness about money to others.
Catch yourself thinking limiting unworthy beliefs about money, use the NLP technique, think about your goals and dreams, listen to music that makes you feel good, feel a little bit better, smile more, stand up straighter, use positive language when responding to people in society but you don’t have to lie about feeling like shit, just always say that you are getting better.
What happens when you do this?
Well I was lucky I learned some really fascinating information from some people in some well known spiritual organizations who taught me when I was in my teens on how to change my thinking, my beliefs and ultimately how to use these methods to change habits so that I physically and spiritually attract the life I want.
After about 3 years of meditation, personal mentoring, reading and listening to self help and spiritual audios and books I attracted myself to a quick $10,000 a month playing around with rave club scene I still run till this day!
Things won’t explode over night, so just feel better now and work on stopping yourself from thinking lack and limiting worthiness thoughts. Become the alchemists of your own life, and bend your habits to create gold in your life.
So to end this, I’m looking to actually move from Kumamoto-shi, Japan on up to Fukuoka, Japan. I’ve had my feel (yes feel) of Kumamoto and it’s slow paced mountain city. Although I love it here, I want to experience life in Fukuoka, I’ve been there many times and I think I’m ready for a more fast paced life again, going to new places, meeting new people every day and going to a different school, because honestly I’m slacking on my Japanese :P, this is my way of creating a new habit. I want to go full function with my Japanese, so I’m going to stick myself in the way of it constantly by being exposed to it every single day in every way.
I have to admit I’m not too shabby when it comes to learning and speaking Japanese, I just feel I want to take it up a notch. I feel excited about it, I’m anticipating looking for apartments or maybe even a house in Fukuoka and looking for a new school to get into, I’m looking forward to the people I’ll be meeting and attracting in my life. How damn fun, life is amazing, don’t let it pass you by, by letting your habits of other people conquer your dreams and beat you down.
RISE above it all by realizing you are worth it and you deserve it, push through your shit, emerge on the other side stronger, bend your will to meet your goals, you have all the power of a star and beyond, you are the center of your Universe, remember that! Elli Sanders says you can create what you want, push upward, push higher, stand tall and smile because, you have exactly what you want and you can have more by simply wanting more, as long as your worth is a match to your belief of having what you want.
Now go, get your journal out and write what you want and feel good about it, listen to music, squash that bug and change your habits!
PS: Feel a little better now.